What to do when dating a shy guy
It is a bit creepy, but not really when you’re the one that’s been posting #sickselfies post on your Instagram whinging about your blocked nose. Don’t get creeped out, remember that you’ve done your equal creepy share of stalking other people’s Facebook pages too.
He’s got your social media content down to a tee and have even scrolled all the way down your Facebook timeline to your highschool prom photos. You probably see him stealing your glances, or find yourself bumping knuckles at the serviette holder about to take the same serviette you were about to grab. They’ve never seen a “playbook” or have other guys teach them how to approach girls. After all, you’re not nervous or scared of approaching men, why not you do it?
Well…as un-idiotic as anyone can be when they’re falling in love.
When it comes to who we like, we really have no control over it.
[Read: Shy guy guide – How do I know if he likes me if he won’t even talk to me?
] How to flirt with a shy guy and get him to open up Before you can hope to make a shy guy yours, you’ll have to flirt with him in order to see if there’s any real chemistry.
However, you should keep in mind that if you do pursue a shy guy, you won’t be sorry at all.
In order to make the most of getting to know the dude you like, you’ll have to know just how to flirt with a shy guy so you don’t scare him away.
And these tips will surely help you flirt with a shy guy and get him to open up to you. Do this in the sense that you should be coy and slightly guarded, not that you should avoid talking or making eye contact with him. But if he sees that you are just as guarded as he is, it actually eases his nervousness and makes it easier for him to let you in.
The result is him doing very very subtle things that either do not even show up as a blip on your man-radar or things that make you question his interest but not obvious enough that you end up bothering thinking about it.
He is not one for the I-love-you-on-a-stadium-score-board nor is he one to blatantly ask you to go on some extravagant first date.