A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.Make sure you know all the features that you get to use during your free membership.Also be aware of the length of your free trial, some services offer an unlimited trial, while others may be just one week.It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and many times there will be guys in that group.Lastly, I do not intend to degrade or belittle women. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.On the contrary, I respect them and believe that no matter where you go, you’ll find extraordinary women. I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 8 years, in Southern California.
At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.
Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult,” which is not accurate at all.
Here in Medellin, you do NOT need to play that game.