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I just needed to have the right opportunity, and the right man, to let these ‘girlish’ traits show.
I love to interact with new people and have no problem making new friends.
I finally had an answer to the question I had first posed in my early twenties: My outgoing personality, which attracted men, was not an obstacle to developing stable relationships.
I had never been the problem; I was fine the way I was in my entirety, whether independent, outgoing or girlish, and I could express myself fully if I was given space, without judgment.
Maybe I had been trying to prove something, in this society where people expect girls to be quiet and submissive. I wish I could say my realization brought me complete freedom from gender norms or expectations of others, but it didn’t.
I had doubts about whether I was good enough a girlfriend to him considering that I was keen on remaining an outgoing, independent woman.