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I’m young, naive, fall for it all, finally have sex, and get into two 1.5 month relationships. An unrelated Gamer Gate-like situation happens and my life is ruined, I gain PTSD and an anxiety disorder, also jump to about 220lbs higher than ever before.The final one ends when I find out he actually had never broken up with his prior girlfriend. I try counseling, first guy is great…the rest are awful."After the first date, I usually know whether a woman is someone I see that way or only want to have sex with.If it's the latter, you'll get a call or text asking to hang out at my place, but I likely won't take you out again."Have you ever experienced one of these signs?If I want to have sex with her again, I'll come up with what I think is a good excuse.Otherwise, it's just, ' I'm exhausted and really need a good night's sleep for work tomorrow.'""You are so hot! "A sex-only relationship means I'm not taking the time to get to know you," one guy says."When I'm only interested in a woman sexually, I'm not going Sometimes a sex-only relationship is just what the doctor ordered—but other times, you're craving something more serious with a guy who has no intention of making moves beyond the bedroom. For the answer, I asked a few men to be brutally honest about how they'll treat a woman they're using for sex.Of course, their examples came with the caveat that each guy is different and these scenarios don't always spell r-u-n.
"If I'm just planning on sleeping with a woman, why does she need to know my parents' names or my all-time favorite comic book? "A sex-only relationship means keeping details to a minimum so we can just get right to the action."He always tries to initiate sex—even when the setting doesn't inspire it.I see you advise many men on being awkward and asperger-y, but if there’s a woman one related to my issues well I’ve missed it. Grew up in rural hell, overweight since age of 8, relentless teasing followed and a spate of boys asking me out as a ‘joke’.My sisters say “toxic masculinity”, but the day it started to feel more personal was when I changed schools hours apart, lost weight, AND IT HAPPENED AGAIN.When I want more, I do want to take the time to set the right mood."Sleepovers? "I don't want to deal with the awkward should-we-grab-breakfast scenario if I only want sex," another guy says."So I will do everything I can—short of saying, 'get out of my apartment, please'—to get a woman to leave after we're done.